This delightful drink combines the vibrant flavors of tequila, elderflower, and Aperol, creating a refreshing and sophisticated beverage that’s perfect for parties, casual gatherings, or a cozy night in. Whether you’re sipping it on a sunny patio or enjoying it by the fireplace, the Part Time Lover is sure to become a new favorite in your cocktail repertoire.

The combination of tequila and elderflower liqueur adds a floral note, while the Aperol (We used Select) brings a touch of bitterness and a beautiful red hue. With the addition of fresh lemon juice and a couple of dashes of Angostura bitters, this cocktail achieves a perfect balance of flavors that will tantalize your taste buds.
The original cocktail recipe can be found on Difford’s Guide. We made a few changes.
Try our other Valentine’s Day Cocktails.
Helpful Tips
- Choose quality ingredients: Since this cocktail features a few key ingredients, using high-quality tequila and fresh lemon juice will enhance the overall flavor of the drink.
- Adjust to your taste: Feel free to experiment with the proportions based on your personal preference. If you prefer a sweeter cocktail, you can add a bit more elderflower liqueur.
- Garnish creatively: A simple lemon twist adds a nice touch, but you can also get creative with garnishes. Consider using edible flowers or a slice of lemon for a more festive presentation.
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Part-Time Lover Cocktail
Ingredients
- 1 1/2 oz tequila
- 1/2 oz lemon juice
- 1/2 oz elderflower liqueur
- 1/2 oz Aperol
- 2 dashes angostura bitters
Instructions
- Add ice to a cocktail shaker. Add all ingredients except the bitters and shake for 30 seconds. Pour into a coupe glass and add the bitters.
- I've added red heart-shaped ice cubes to mine for Valentine's Day. It's optional, but adds a little special touch.

Laura is the founder and editor of the travel blogs Savored Sips and Savored Journeys. She is dedicated to sharing the best information about drinks found around the world.